Priorities

I've always put The Kids first.  I used all my energy for them and, although it wasn't a lot, I did as much as I could with them.  That sounds honourable but actually that left nothing for B.  Or myself. Or anyone else. When The Kids were babies/toddlers/very young children I think they needed that attention and… Continue reading Priorities

As yet untitled

I wonder sometimes about how I came to be so lucky; B is a wonderful husband (unsung hero) and of course The Kids are amazing. I've been reflecting on the past ten years and so much has happened; so many times things could have broken down. Before we got married I gave B a free pass… Continue reading As yet untitled

My two cents – Part 2

Following on from Part 1 here's what I've learned: Your children, your parenting rules: Just because you have carers helping you does not mean you aren't the parent.  I know many carers like to do things their way - be firm.  Carers are there to help us and are supposed to be respectful of the way we… Continue reading My two cents – Part 2